Do you keep things from relationships? Little things like ticket stubs (movies, concerts, sports), pieces of paper, cards, etc.? Do you keep them in a box for that relationship?
Quite some time ago I ended a relationship... one that meant a fuck of a lot to me. It was, to date, the hardest relationship to walk away from. I still have this box full of stuff though - I have a diary we kept together (he lived out of state and we'd write in it when we were together and whatnot), I have plane tickets, I have sporting event stubs, I have menus and business cards from restaurants we went to. I love this stuff. It made me cry tonight. I'm happy in my current relationship, but that doesn't mean I don't get sad over memories from the past.
My question to the women out there... do you do this too? If so, what do you do with the box once the relationship is over? I don't want to burn it because I'm not bitter and full of hate... I want to keep it, I want the memories. Is it wrong to keep it having a new man? I don't look through it often at all... the only reason I opened it tonight was to add something to it that I found in a pile of papers, and even tonight I didn't look through it but for 45 seconds.