Is it wrong to not have goals? Does it make me a loser? You can be honest.
I know I should set goals so that I have something to work towards, but I've always been horrible about reaching my goals.. or I will set goals that are no where within my reach, so then I just let myself down. OR.. I just get lazy.
I've had this Hawaii trip booked for MONTHS... I've had MONTHS to hit the gym and get in the shape I want to be for bikini wearing... am I in that shape? Have I met a simple goal of going at least 10 times a month? It's only 10 times... why is that so fricken hard? Do I have such a busy life that I can't spare 60 minutes for the gym, nope.
So goals are out.
Dreams - I have a lot of dreams, but mostly the ones that, again, are unattainable. Dreams like If I won the lottery I'd have my dream home or I'd pay off the mortgages of my loved ones. Great dreams, yes, but just not a reality.
Plans... well, I have plans. Shit, planning is my middle name. That's right, Ang Planning. Don't act like it's not normal.
Plans is: Hawaii in February. Before or Beyond that is out of my control, for the moment.
I know, I suck on many levels.